Being with a narcissistic partner can feel like living a reality which is very different from the one of the outside world. Feelings and perceptions you know are true for yourself will be devalued and ridiculed by your narcissistic partner. This can lead to a complete breakdown of your own personality – you might feel trapped and just want to escape. But it is not your decision when to go – the narcissistic partner will make sure that you keep on hanging in there as long as it is useful for him or her.